Post-Trauma Support Groups and Resources
Trauma is an emotional stress that overwhelms our abilities to cope, which has lasting effects on our nervous system, brain and body. We experience trauma after witnessing or facing a distressing event or a series of events, such as accidents (e.g. road traffic, workplace), physical or sexual assaults, child abuse, family violence, bullying, war or natural disaster.
1) Re-experiencing
Re-experiencing happens when you involuntarily and vividly relive the traumatic event. Thoughts and feelings, words, objects, or situations that are reminder of the trauma (such as significant date or media coverage/ news) may trigger you. This occurs in-
2) Avoidance
Trying to avoid memories/ thoughts/ things/ places/ people that reminds you of traumatic event, or avoid talking to people about your traumatic experience. This includes:
3) Negative mood and thoughts
The way you think about yourself and others may change because of the trauma. This includes:
4) Reactivity
You may be always on the lookout for danger and experience the following emotions:
For some people, these symptoms generally improve naturally over a few weeks. However, do talk to your family doctor or a mental health professional if these symptoms
1) Re-establishing Safety and Stabilization
Establishing safety starts within yourselves by focusing on your physical and mental well-being. This means you need to attend to any ailments, eat healthy food, exercise regularly, sleep adequately, and follow up with your medical or therapy appointment. Get back into your routine or create a routine may give some sense of normalcy, which can help to create sense of safety.
Learning to manage your emotional distress is also important in establishing safety. You may do this by engaging in activities that relaxes you, such as listening to music, humming or singing, spending time outdoor, deep breathing, taking warm shower with your favourite body wash, noticing happy (or “Okay”) moments, having “me-time” or exercise/ physical movement. There are plenty of activities that are relaxing. Find one that resonates with you.
2) Self-regulation Strategies
During periods of heightened alertness, known as the "hyper-arousal state," we might perceive threats even when none exist. Symptoms may include irritability, intense anxiety, fearfulness, heightened sensitivity to stimuli, or anger. Here are several techniques you can employ to manage these feelings:
3) Grounding using 5 Senses
During moments of experiencing flashbacks or negative emotions, your mind may revisit past traumatic events, evoking painful memories and resulting in fear and helplessness. Grounding techniques aid in realigning your mind and body, redirecting your focus to the present moment where safety exists, away from the grip of flashbacks or negative emotions. This practice facilitates a calming effect, allowing you to regain a sense of control.
Try activating your senses by:
4) Try Relaxation techniques
Intentionally make time to engage in activities that relaxes you, such as spending time outdoors, humming, singing, chanting, petting your dog, taking warm or cold showers, doing your hobbies or engaging in pleasant activities.
5) Connect with your "safe" person
Forging meaningful connections with people who are nurturing and caring may help to calm and comfort you.
6) Try Diaphragmatic breathing
When our brain detects a threat, our breathing often becomes rapid and shallow. Engaging in deep, slow breaths can communicate to our brain and body that we are secure. Some individuals find it beneficial to mentally count or envision a rectangle while inhaling, pausing, and exhaling.
For some, professional assistance and guidance may be necessary on their path to healing. Do not hesitate to seek additional support when needed. Mental health professional trained in trauma may work with you to process and make sense and come to terms with the experience, eventually growing and creating new meaning and purpose.
Remember, recovery is a process- it takes time to heal physically and mentally. The journey to healing is different for everyone.
You can reach out for support at the following locations:
24-hour Helpline
Other Helplines
Family Service Centres (FSCs)
Click the following link to locate your nearest FSC: Family Services - Ministry of Social and Family Development (msf.gov.sg)
Caregivers
Other Resources
This article is brought to you by Central Region Trauma Services (CRTS) in collaboration with Tan Tock Seng Hospital, Department of Psychology.
This article was last reviewed on Wednesday, June 26, 2024