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Helping our child manage their sleep
Sleep is important for a child’s growth and development. As parents, we play a vital role in ensuring that our children develop a consistent bedtime routine for better sleep.
How much sleep does our child need?
During this stage of their lives, children need the following hours of sleep each day, including naps:
- First year: 12 to 17 hours of sleep
- Second year: 11 to 14 hours of sleep
Studies have shown that sleep is important for children’s immunity, emotional development, mood, learning skills and memory. Therefore, helping our children achieve good sleep is crucial.
What can we do to help our child
get a good night’s sleep?
Here are 3 tips to help our child sleep better:
Make the environment
conducive for sleeping
Ensure safe
sleeping conditions
Develop a consistent sleep routine
Learn more tips on how we can get our baby to sleep better.
If we are concerned about our child’s sleep,
we can speak to a doctor or a healthcare professional from a sleep centre.
Baby Sleep Log
Some parents find it useful to maintain a sleep log to track their child’s sleep duration and progress. Try it out to get a clearer picture of how much our child is sleeping. The log might also help us understand our child’s schedule, and create regular wake and sleep routines for our child.
Some parents find it useful to maintain a sleep log to track their child’s sleep duration and progress. Try it out to get a clearer picture of how much our child is sleeping.
The log might also help us:
- Understand our child’s schedule
- Create regular wake and sleep routines for them
Make the environment conducive for sleeping
Create a bedroom environment that is dim, quiet, comfortable, and free of any screens.
Ensure safe sleeping conditions
Reduce loose objects from our baby’s cot and place our child on their back to reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome.
Develop a consistent sleep routine
Adopt healthy sleep habits and create a consistent sleep schedule so that our child becomes familiar with their sleep cycle.
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Helping our child manage their sleep
Having sufficient sleep helps our child feel their best and learn better. As parents, we play a vital role in ensuring that our children develop a consistent bedtime routine for better sleep.
What sleep is like for our child
During this stage of their lives, children require 10 to 13 hours of sleep each day, including naps.
Research has shown that sleep is important for their learning and memory skills. It has also shown that poor sleep can affect children’s mood, emotional development and immunity. Therefore, helping our children achieve good sleep is crucial.
What can we do to help our child
get a good night’s sleep?
Important elements for our child to have good sleep are:
If we are concerned about our child’s sleep,
we can speak to a doctor or a healthcare professional from a sleep centre.
Find out more about the importance of sleep for our child and other helpful suggestions to help our child have a good night's rest here.
Here are some additional resources to make sleep a breeze for our child.
A good sleeping environment
Ensure a conducive environment (e.g. dim lighting, comfortable bed) for our child to sleep in.
A regular sleep routine
Develop and adopt a consistent sleep schedule so that our child can be familiar with their sleep cycle.
Mental health services
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Helping our child manage their sleep
Having sufficient sleep is a good start to helping our child remember and learn better. As parents, we play a vital role in ensuring that our children develop a consistent bedtime routine for better sleep.
What sleep is like for our child
During this stage of their lives, children require 9 to 11 hours of sleep each day.
Research has shown that sleep is important for their learning, memory skills, and school
performance. Poor sleep can affect our child’s physical and mental health, including their:
Mood
Emotional development
Immunity
Risk of developing mental health
conditions including depression
and anxiety
Some common signs that our child has been having poor sleep include:
Yawning
Having droopy eyes
Being cranky, whiny, or fussy, especially in the late afternoon on a regular basis
Acting especially clingy or needy
Waking up groggy or falling asleep after being woken up and needing to be woken up again
Desiring to lie down or nap during the day
Snoring
What can we do to help our child
get a good night’s sleep?
Children’s daily habits and sleep environment are vital to ensuring a good night’s sleep and preventing sleep deprivation. Here are some tips we can use as we support our child in having a good night’s rest:
Ensure a consistent bedtime routine on weekdays and weekends
Create an environment
conducive for sleep
Play relaxing music
Avoid giving them heavy meals before bed
Help them relax
Avoid electronic devices 1 hour before bedtime
Avoid naps just
before bedtime
Stay away
from stimulants
Exercise regularly
Ensure that the
bed should only
be for sleep
If we are concerned about our child’s sleep,
we can speak to a doctor or a healthcare professional from a sleep centre.
Ensure a consistent bedtime routine on weekdays and weekends
A regular bedtime routine with a sleep curfew can help ensure our child gets enough sleep. An example of a sleep routine that gets our child ready for bed can include the following:
- Taking a warm shower
- Brushing teeth
- Changing into pyjamas
- Doing relaxing activities such as reading
- Saying goodnight to our child and giving them a hug to end the day
It is important that their sleep routine is consistent, even during the weekends or holidays.
Create an environment conducive for sleep
Our child’s bedroom should be comfortable for them. Their room should not be too hot or too cold.
For young ones who do not like sleeping in the dark, place a dim nightlight in their room or leave the hall lights on with their doors slightly open.
Play relaxing music
Play soothing music for them. It has the power to help them feel relaxed and at ease, making it easier for them to fall asleep.
We can choose to integrate music into their bedtime routine such that it becomes a habit that cues their bodies to prepare for sleep.
Avoid giving them heavy meals before bed
Make sure our child doesn’t go to bed with an overly filled belly. It might make them feel uncomfortable and could keep them awake longer.
Also, avoid giving in to their hunger pangs (if any) before bed with large meals. Instead, give them light and healthy snacks like low-fat yoghurt, a cup of milk, or a serving of fruit.
Avoid electronic devices 1 hour before bedtime
Keep their devices like smartphones and tablets away before bedtime. The blue light from the screen can keep them up and affect their sleep.
Instead, have them stick to a physical book, or use an e-reader, rather than a bright tablet or mobile phones.
Avoid naps just before bedtime
Schedule our child’s naps earlier in the day as naps just before bedtime can cause them to find it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep at night.
Stay away from stimulants
Avoid giving them caffeinated food or drinks near their bedtime. Consuming caffeinated food or drink can make falling asleep difficult for them. This can include things like coffee, chocolates, soft drinks, or tea.
Refrain from boisterous play with them just before bedtime as this can make it harder for our child to wind down and fall asleep.
Exercise regularly
Encourage our child to exercise more to sleep better. Children above the age of 7 should have at least 60 minutes of moderate-to-vigorous physical activity per day.
Ensure that the bed should only be for sleep
Try to ensure that our child’s bed is meant for bedtime and not for other activities (e.g. playing). Over time, playing on the bed may cause them to associate the bed with non-sleep related activities.
Mental health services
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Helping our teen manage their sleep
As our teen goes through puberty, their sleep patterns might change. As parents, we can still play a part in encouraging them to adopt a consistent bedtime routine for better sleep.
What sleep is like for our teen
Teens face changes in their sleep patterns when they go through puberty. For instance, they may find it more difficult to sleep and have later bedtimes. The lack of sleep can affect their learning, mood, immunity and mental health. Therefore, sleep plays a vital role in the wellbeing of our teens.
To understand what sleep is like for our teen, find out more here.
What can we do to help our
teen get a good night’s sleep?
Our daily habits and sleep environment are vital to ensuring a good night’s sleep and
preventing sleep deprivation. We can support our teen in having a good night’s rest.
Mental health services
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